Frequently asked questions
Clear answers for a relationship built on trust.
If something important is not answered here, the contact route will be added before launch.
01What is Somebody Like Me?+
Somebody Like Me is a marketplace where adoptees, current or former foster youth, and people raised under guardianship can discover trained mentors with relevant lived experience and book time directly from their profiles.
02Who is mentorship for?+
Adoptees ages 13 and older, current or former foster youth, people raised under guardianship, and adults navigating those experiences.
03How old does a participant need to be?+
Participants must be at least 13. Guardian consent is required before a minor’s first session.
04Do I choose my mentor?+
Yes. Browse public profiles, compare lived-experience areas, topics, session lengths, rates, and availability, then choose the person who feels right. A matching request may also be available when you want help narrowing the options.
05How does discovery work?+
Profiles can be filtered by relevant lived experience and conversation topics. The goal is meaningful overlap—not identical lives or a promise that one mentor can understand everything.
06What if nobody currently matches my experience?+
We will tell you honestly and offer a private waitlist. We will not pressure you to book a poor match.
07How much does a session cost?+
Each mentor chooses their own session lengths and rates. Every price is shown clearly on the mentor’s profile before booking.
08Are sessions virtual?+
Yes. Sessions take place by secure video using the approved scheduling provider.
09Is this therapy?+
No. Mentorship offers shared experience, listening, reflection, connection, and practical support. It is not therapy, diagnosis, medical care, legal advice, or crisis response.
10Can a mentor diagnose or treat mental health concerns?+
No. A mentor does not diagnose or treat mental health conditions through Somebody Like Me.
11Can a parent attend?+
The opening or closing may sometimes include a caregiver when appropriate, but the participant needs room for a private conversation. The final approach will be stated in the consent materials.
12What will parents be told after a session?+
Parents receive scheduling and safety information, not a report of everything said. Information may be shared with permission or when safety, reporting duties, or law requires action. This working policy requires legal review.
13What happens if a safety concern comes up?+
Mentorship is not crisis care. The safety policy and consent materials will explain how urgent concerns and reporting responsibilities are handled before launch.
14Can I book more than one session?+
Yes. Book one offering or return when the relationship feels useful. Mentors may offer different session lengths, but there is no required membership or long-term commitment.
15What is the cancellation policy?+
The working policy allows cancellation or rescheduling at least 24 hours in advance. See the cancellation page for details pending legal review.
16What does the verified badge mean?+
It means the mentor completed Somebody Like Me’s required screening, methodology course, practice, and readiness review. Verification is earned and cannot be purchased. It is not a professional license or a guarantee of a particular outcome.
17How are mentors paid?+
Mentors choose their offerings and rates. Somebody Like Me plans to process marketplace payments, deduct the disclosed platform fee, and send the remaining payout to the mentor through Stripe Connect once payments launch.
18Can an agency pay for a participant?+
Agency-sponsored sessions and prepaid access may be supported as the marketplace expands. Agencies do not need to provide private parent contact lists for families to use the public marketplace.