Pete Drake, founder and founding mentor
Founder & founding mentor

Independent mentor profile

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Pete Drake

Pronouns coming soon · Alaska · serving virtually

A Black adoptee raised in a white adoptive family, with lived experience around race, identity, belonging, and family.

Black adopteeTransracial adoptionRaised in a white familyIdentityBelongingRace and familyTalking with parentsAdulthood and meaning

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My story

Loving your family and needing more understanding can both be true.

Pete Drake is a Black adoptee who was raised in a white adoptive family. His mentorship is shaped by the experience of loving his family while also working through questions of race, identity, belonging, gratitude, loss, and what it means to become your own person. He created Somebody Like Me so adoptees and foster youth could have the kind of conversation many of them have never had with someone who genuinely understands.

Why I mentor

I want adoptees and foster youth to have honest conversations earlier—with somebody who can understand the feeling without asking them to translate every part of it first.

Topics I welcome

↗ Identity and self-understanding

↗ Race and transracial adoption

↗ Belonging and feeling different

↗ Talking with parents

↗ Mixed emotions

↗ Growing into adulthood

Marketplace details

↗ Languages: English

↗ Age groups: 13–17, 18–25, 26+

↗ Sessions: Virtual

↗ Rates and availability are controlled by the mentor

What verification covers

Identity, references, required screening, The Somebody Standard course, scenario practice, and a readiness decision. The badge is earned—not purchased—and is not a professional license.

Sessions through Somebody Like Me are mentorship—not therapy, diagnosis, medical care, legal advice, or crisis response.